The issue on complacency.

It has become a norm for people to select a good deed/thought/advice that suits them or that agrees with them when this is not what the overall context of goodness is all about.

The main challenge is to seek something that completely disagrees, and understand why such an event occurs. From there you can improve. The way to truly embrace your faith is not by consoling yourself with something you can relate to, that will only keep you in your little bubble, that will only breed complacency within.

Just understand that, if you truly give your all to the Almighty, then you wouldn't be affected by the trivial that falls upon you as much as you would be by things that really matter.
This is nothing but a mere generalization. We are only human, we are affected by different things in varying magnitudes.